1 Samuel 23:17(KJV)
And he said unto him, Fear not: for the hand of Saul my father shall not find thee; and thou shalt be king over Israel, and I shall be next unto thee; and that also Saul my father knoweth.
The friendship that existed between David and Jonathan is a powerful example of a true friend. Despite the many hardships both men faced, they remained faithful to one another as friends and protected one another from harm. Jonathan even risked his life interceding for David before his father, who sought to kill David. They had a stronger bond than the relationship both had with any of their own siblings. Throughout their relationship, Jonathan showed the hallmarks of a true friend and brother, regarding David as more important than himself and seeking to put David’s interest ahead of his own. Jonathan was willing to sacrifice his advancement and, instead, promote David. The friendship between David and Jonathan is an instructive lesson for all of us. Jonathan supported his friend despite the differences in their social status. Jonathan wanted the will of God to come to pass in the life of David, and he cooperated radiantly with him. He did not mind his father’s reaction even when he knew David’s enthronement would jeopardize his chances of becoming a king in Israel. In Jonathan, we find the ideal characteristics of friendship, devoid of hypocrisy, selfishness, tribal or fraternal biases, not blinded by jealousy, needless ambition, and self-gratification.
Real friendships are a gift from God because they exemplify the perfect friend who remains loyal through the good, the bad, and the ugly days. Proverbs 18:24 says, “A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.” Friendship is so formidable, dynamic, and beneficial to human life. True friendship doesn’t come without sacrifice. It can cost precious time and money. But it’s so worth it because friendships can uniquely strengthen our faith. True friends will express a love that is stronger than that of blood brothers. They love at all times (Proverbs 17:17) and have their best interest at heart. They go the extra mile to make their friends happy because they share in their happiness. They can understand their own life experience but do not become consumed by their own problems. Instead, they take action to help solve the problems of others. In other words, true friends will put the needs of others before themselves. They are patient and encourage their friends in the growth process. They are trustworthy and will celebrate our success and cheer our efforts.
Beloved, watch who you call your friend because a true friend will always enter your experience and encourage you. A true friend never gives up. They will not abandon you when circumstances change or turn their backs when you are in need. Not envious of your elevation and promotion from God but will stand side by side with you in all things. Determine to be the person that will make that difference in others. Be a dependable, truthful, loyal, and selfless friend, and you will benefit from this investment. Choose your friends wisely; not everyone can be your friend. Friendship is not for socialization or fun but for your future. The voice you hear determines your place in life. The influence around your life determines your future and how far you go. Anybody whose conviction is opposite your own is not a true friend; therefore, stay away from them. Run away from anyone who is always encouraging you to violate your principles. Remember, there is a true friend called Jesus; He never fails or disappoints. He is trustworthy and reliable. Jesus is that perfect friend you desire. Reach out to Jesus and make Him your friend by always doing His Will.
O Lord, thank You for Your word. Connect me with true friends in Jesus’ Name.