Proverbs 27:17(KJV)
Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.
The reality is that our social affiliations significantly shape our trajectory. The individuals we surround ourselves with play a crucial role in molding our values and belief systems. As the saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together,” emphasizing the tendency of like-minded individuals to congregate, reinforcing collective behaviors and ideologies. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says, “evil communication corrupts good manners.” We can quickly become like those we spend time with. Just like one piece of iron can make the other piece of iron extremely sharp and thus more effective by rubbing up against it. Likewise, mutual edification occurs when believers are involved in one another’s lives. Two solid Christian friends can also have the same positive effect on one another by sharing their personal walks in the Lord with one another. Friendship is integral to our growth in Christ, our growth as a person, and helping others grow. Observing the achievements and progress of others can serve as motivation for personal improvement. This inspiration can lead individuals to push their boundaries and aim for higher levels of success.
Iron sharpening iron signifies the empowering journey of individuals or groups uplifting one another through constructive criticism, healthy competition, and challenging interactions. A strong network of dedicated Christian friends is essential for accelerating our spiritual growth and development. When we engage with multiple sources of wisdom and insight, we enrich our journey in profound ways. Rather than viewing feedback as criticism, we recognize it as a powerful tool for growth in our faith. Embracing this collaborative approach to learning builds us up and propels us forward on our spiritual path with confidence and purpose. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 KJV says, “Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.” As we bring out the best in one another, our character is refined, just as the grinding from another piece of iron sharpens an iron blade. Sharpening may not always be easy to hear and say, yet if we are not challenging each other, our lives can easily slip away from God’s best for us. As Christians, we are to be sharpened and sharpen others to advance the Kingdom of God. Ecclesiastes 4:9 says, “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” The most effective way to sharpen our skills and mindset is to surround ourselves with those who are already sharp. Forge friendships with serious-minded individuals. When we spend time with unserious people who lack discipline, we risk becoming just like them.
Beloved, choose your circle wisely, and elevate your life to match their standards. You cannot say you are a born-again Christian and all your friends are drunkards, womanizers, criminals, prostitutes, or liars! It means that your Christianity has a question mark. Do not let anyone force you into a relationship you are unsure of or uncomfortable with. Friendship is not by force; friendship is by choice. There are some friends you may need to disconnect from if you must reach your future and fulfill your destiny. One wrong choice in friendships can lead to your ruin, while one good choice in friendships can be one of the most rewarding and beneficial parts of your life. Examine your association and make sure you are with the right company. Choose the right kind of friends to be around you, for much of who you are is the result of who you choose to be your friends. True friendship is when you have a friend who can challenge, correct, encourage, and build you into the person God intended you to be and vice versa. The words you choose and your actions have an effect on others. In other words, it is important to sharpen but not to stab each other. Today, let your heart be touched and open to listen so you can sharpen each other as you grow more and more in faith! Always bring your will under the control of the Holy Spirit. Get involved in Bible-based fellowships and Prayer groups. Remember, whether it’s through sharing wisdom, providing support, or simply being present, you can make a significant difference in each other’s lives.
O LORD, thank You for Your Word. I ask that You bring the right people my way as You continue to bless my friendships and deepen my trust in You in Jesus’ Name.