Genesis 2:18 (KJV)
And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
The passage is an excellent summary of the biblical concepts of marriage. The creation story reveals that God intended for the union of a man and woman in marriage to fulfill His divine plan for mankind. The combination of the male-female relationship reflects God’s image. The creation of Adam and Eve was not just a mere act of speaking them into being; it was a step-by-step process that demonstrated God’s interest in the institution of marriage. According to the Scriptures, marriage is a concept that originated from God Himself, and He designed it for couples to receive maximum blessings from Him. The central idea behind God’s design for marriage is companionship and intimacy. God blessed this union and commanded Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply, and only a female helper can help the man fulfill this mission. Genesis 2:24 says, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” The Bible teaches that a man should leave his parents and unite with his wife to become one. God’s plan is for marriage to succeed for everyone.
Marriage is legally or formally joining a man and woman as husband and wife to build a God-centered home. It is the oldest institution in the world, recognized by humanity, and has its roots in divinity. God ordained a unique relationship for a man and a woman to give and receive satisfaction for their healthy needs and desires. For any marriage to work or be successful, the responsibility is equally placed on both the man and woman. When a man and a woman come together as husband and wife, they are expected to have entered a better way of living. Ecclesiastes 4:9 says, “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor.” Marriage is not just about falling in love, but something we commit to with much patience and tolerance. Ephesians 5:22 says, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” Total submission (NOT oppression but service) to all husbands is the key to a successful marriage. Instead of shouting at our husbands and disrespecting them at any given opportunity, assist them in fulfilling God’s plan for their life on earth. Ephesians 5:25 says, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” All husbands need to love their wives unconditionally, willing to forgive and sacrifice for the good of the marriage. Let nothing hinder the intimacy because it brings unity and flow of communication and makes the marriage enjoyable and lasts a lifetime. 1 John 4:18 says, “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.”
Beloved, to experience the gold in marriage, you and your spouse must do what God says without bypassing His laid-down commandments. To fulfill God’s purpose, you must live according to the order of marriage ordained by Almighty God. Any marriage outside Christ cannot escape the difficulties and troubles of this world. So, make your ways right with God, and you and your spouse will experience God’s favor and blessings. Whatever it may cost you, keep your marriage intact because great blessings are attached to holy matrimony. Treat each other with respect! Love one another, and don’t ever stop loving each other. You can only be an exciting husband or wife once you are interested in your spouse’s affairs. Be interested and relevant as you present your best to your spouse. Be each other’s friend and do everything possible to stay together because God honors unity. Be open with one another and not be secretive. Enjoy your marriage!
O Lord, help me build a strong, happy, and joyful marriage and home in Jesus’ Name.